don’t worry you’re not alone…
Yesterday, I had a WhatsApp conversation with a friend who’s into writing too, about what his other interests are.
He listed them & almost immediately I made connections of what he could make into a career. He’s fascinated about sex and relationships which he writes about on his Twitter. His writing is second to none.
I proposed that he focuses on writing on this more than he does on any other topic as his very few are doing it and it’s a very scalable space.
Here’s the thing, I can make these connections for people without sweating and they be like “Wow! Tobi you just made me see possibilities” others say “I never thought about it this way”.
Turning on lights for people, watching their eyes lit up has become a superpower for me. And nothing brings me more joy. (Maybe apart from my woman😉).
The unbelievable part of this is, I can’t do the very same thing on/for myself.
How’s it possible that I help people make connections of themselves and I can’t do it at that level for myself?
Do you experience this too?