I’m Struggling To Move On From My Ex

deleting the memories hurt the most

tobi — Audio Writer
3 min readFeb 16, 2024

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I don’t think people talk about this part of break up enough and I feel like it's something we should address in this post.

My emotions are all over the place as I write this — but please stay with me.

I am speaking from the perspective of someone who has been through a 3-year relationship. For the most part, it was enjoyable it was good.

Love is such a beautiful thing when you find someone who sees you, makes sacrifices for you, invests in you, and makes their world revolve around you, and yours is about them.

That’s a special thing to experience at least once before you exit this world. And anyone who has captured that should hold on to it for as long as they can.

I co-habited with my ex for the last year of our partnership. It turned out to be one of the worst decisions we made — after not investing in Bitcoin when it launched.

To make it worse our finances took a major hit when one of us got sacked. It trickled down and affected other areas.

We became too sensitive to every joke, every word.

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tobi — Audio Writer

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