I’m Struggling To Move On From My Ex

deleting the memories hurt the most

tobi — Audio Writer
2 min readFeb 16, 2024

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I don’t think people talk about this part of break up enough and I feel like it's something we should address in this post.

My emotions are all over the place as I write this — but please stay with me.

I am speaking from the perspective of someone who has been through a 3-year relationship. For the most part, it was enjoyable it was good.

Love is such a beautiful thing when you find someone who sees you, makes sacrifices for you, invests in you, and makes their world revolve around you, and yours is about them.

That’s a special thing to experience at least once before you exit this world. And anyone who has captured that should hold on to it for as long as they can.

To make it worse our finances took a major hit when one of us got sacked. It trickled down and affected other areas.

We became too sensitive to every joke, every word.

Love is very beautiful but when it’s just about to end, it’s the most miserable experience you can ever have. The post-relationship trauma slowly hits. You start to feel empty because the person who was beside you no longer seems to exist. They’re not dead, but they disappeared. That feeling is so frustrating and so…

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tobi — Audio Writer
tobi — Audio Writer

Written by tobi — Audio Writer

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